Society today ? why is it so messed up ?

you sadden me by trying to use commercialized holidays to justify marriage being man and woman only...those are made up holidays...also biologically...wtf is wrong with you since when did marriage have anything to do with biology at all...and marriage is all about legality not religion nor biology...so yeah as for overlooking responsibility i think you need to learn that your responsibility is to mind your business and worry bout ur marriage not others.